They say the two best days for the owner of a boat is the day he buys it, and the day he sells it. Why is that?
From personal experience I can testify to this statement. Over time, the joy of new ownership is overridden with maintenance and deterioration issues. What was once pleasure turns into work.
I thought of this when reading Eccl. 7:1, “A good name is better than precious ointment, and the day of death than the day of birth.” I placed a footnote in my Bible cross referencing this verse to Phil. 1:21, “For me to live is Christ, and to die is gain.”
If I were not a follower of Christ, those verses would be morose to me. But God has my heart because he’s rescued me, so Eccl. 7:2 makes perfect sense, “It is better to go to the house of mourning than to go to the house of feasting, for this is the end of all mankind and the living will lay it to heart.” And Phil. 1:23, “I am hard pressed between the two. My desire is to depart and be with Christ, for that is far better.”
Solomon knew it, Paul believed it, and I’m embracing it in faith! For the sake of my family, I pray for a long and fulfilling life. Yet for me, whether the end comes soon, or decades down the road, it will be a better day than my birth!
These were my thoughts after writing Survivors Sequel—an article inspired by meeting survivors from line of duty deaths.
Meeting the survivors of officer’s who have died in the line of duty is a privilege. Speaking to loved one’s and hearing their story is sobering, yet it inspires me to move forward in faith to all who will listen.
I had the opportunity to join Glendale Police Sergeant Jeff Daukas and Pastor Mark Martin as guest speakers at the Never Alone Conference in Phoenix over the weekend. Hannah Ellis and her friend, Nick, performed her stirring song, Officer Down, the same one performed last year in Washington D.C. during National Police Week.
It was a delight to meet them, but more importantly, hear the back-story to the song. As we exchanged tales over dinner, I learned her late cousin, Senior Patrol Officer Daniel Ellis, inspired the tune. He died two days after being shot while attempting to apprehend an armed robbery suspect in Richmond, Kentucky a year ago. As you can imagine, the song is far more than words to Hannah. It is a photo album celebrating the life, and tragic death, of her loving cousin, and is written from the perspective of his wife, Katie.
The song resonates with each person in the business of law enforcement, since we all have our personal “Officer Down” stories. And we emotionally go there when Hannah sings to us.
I also met Mark and Diane Corder, parents of Motor Officer Jordan Corder. Jordan was thrown from his police motorcycle after a small SUV attempted to make a left turn in front of him, causing a head-on collision. The accident took a hero from the streets of Covina, California a little over two years ago.
Mark, who retired from the Covina Police Department himself, and Diane spoke with resolve and certainty about their obligation to reach out to other survivors and offer hope.
Phoenix Police Department retiree Dan Elting and his wife, Rosanna, were inspired to create the conference. They met the Corder’s in the airport in Chicago on the way to Police Week. Then within days of returning home, Officer David Glasser was shot and killed responding to a burglary in progress. His death hit the Elting’s hard because they just attended Police Week, and Glasser worked at Dan’s agency.
Speaking with Diane Corder, she mercifully shared her thoughts about the survivors of Officer Glasser, and her desire to do something special for them.
As I participated in the conference, and took in the connections being made, I couldn’t help but think about the web being created by survivors reaching out to support the family in blue that had lost a loved one serving humanity. And I was honored to join arms and exchange hugs as we seek to insert another link in the chain of good will—serving with a purpose greater than our individual effort. Never Alone was designed to minister to all members of the law enforcement family, but the Survivors Sequel had the greatest impact on me.