Police officers often encounter individuals with what can be described as a “machine gun mouth” – people who spew caustic remarks with little regard for discretion or intelligence. For many patrol officers, this is a daily occurrence, almost every call for service involves dealing with someone who seems determined to unleash a torrent of negativity. Have you encountered such individuals?
Upon retirement, one might hope to escape such encounters. However, venturing into the world of writing, and the inevitable presence on social media, brings both praise and critique.
Just as in law enforcement, developing a thick skin is essential when sharing thoughts publicly. Everyone holds opinions, and many are convinced their witty remarks are the pinnacle of humor. But are they truly witty, or do they reveal the condition of a person’s heart? It’s often the latter.
It’s important to distinguish this from genuine humor. A good laugh is appreciated by most. The issue lies with caustic retorts intended to demean others, whether it’s a writer or a larger group. Online commentators frequently target cops, and it’s crucial to maintain composure.
“Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak and to remove all doubt.” This quote, attributed to both Abraham Lincoln and Mark Twain, echoes the proverb: “Even a fool is thought wise if he keeps silent, and discerning if he holds his tongue.”
At Law Enforcement Today, the goal is to maintain high standards. This involves sticking to facts and articulating opinions based on pragmatic logic. While perfection is unattainable, the effort remains. The same is expected of the audience. However, controlling the trolls and haters who act like dogs seeking a fire hydrant is impossible.
Cynicism is a dual-edged sword. Name-calling achieves nothing. Police officers already face numerous adversaries due to the nature of their work. Creating more enemies through unnecessary verbal attacks is counterproductive.
Wise counsel from a mentor emphasized the importance of T.H.I.N.K. before speaking. Words should be:
If any of these elements are missing, it’s best to remain silent. While law enforcement should never shy away from a justified fight, initiating one through verbal assault is unethical and should be avoided to maintain respect, both as organizations and individuals.
– Jim McNeff, partner and managing editor, Law Enforcement Today